Christian Welch doesn’t mind talking about the hungry years. One of six children living in an RV with their mother, he shepherded brothers and sisters through their education while he was at Red Rock High School. Now a successful sophomore at University of San Diego, everything he went through is just part of the journey.
Dennis Dearden, superintendent of Sedona Oak Creek Unified School District, suggested Christian as someone who could provide a first-hand perspective on what a difference adult interest can make to a student who faces more struggles than getting a good grade on a test. He would have benefitted from the Wildcat Extended Day Program at West Sedona School if it had been around when he was.
Welch sketches his early life in broad strokes: strict household, eight children, controlling father, mother who finally fled the poverty and abuse. She drove her children from Texas to northern Arizona in the RV that was their home, and they all agreed it was the perfect place to start over.
While in high school in Texas Welch had been accepted into the National Honor Society, but he wasn’t inducted because couldn’t afford the $50 induction fee.
“I went outside and cried for a long time. I never told anyone; no one at school knew.”
He says struggling students know their parents are doing everything they can, and don’t want to make things harder.
“Parents often work in shift hours, so you try to take care of the burdens yourself. You don’t want to put things on them. I got a job so I could pay fees and things for myself and my younger siblings, so my mom didn’t have to hear about them. She was finding a way; working so hard just to feed us.”
Fortunately for Welch, some observant school faculty and staff detected the stress he was under and asked questions.
“The most important thing that got me through was the people in our school, from office workers to coaches, who helped us out.”
Sometimes that meant aid in filling out scholarship forms, sometimes sending food home. He empathizes with children who face adult burdens.
“Adults may see a kid who isn’t dressed well, always late to class, and think he doesn’t care. They don’t realize he’s having a tough time at home. Students need certain things to be able to excel, but when you have gaps in your learning, it’s so much harder.”
He was glad to hear about the extended day initiative. Since many students in West Sedona School have working parents, the program runs from 6 a.m. until school, then again until 6 p.m. Nutritious food is included, and supervision with homework as well as education play and outdoor recreation. Welch says all those things matter.
“But sometimes the most important thing is knowing someone cares. Someone actually takes time for you.”
At Wildcat Extended Day, that someone is Debbie Crincoli. A self-described hippie, she raised her children with organic gardening and little store-bought food. Cell phone and pad screens are not part of her program. Self-reliance winds like music through everything she does. Her goal is that each student know they matter, and deserve respect and attention. So, on Mondays she teaches food preparation, knowing that adults can’t always be around no matter how much they might want to be. She encourages thinking through problems and talking through conflicts. She is a steady presence when the hours might have otherwise been spent waiting in a car for a parent to get off work or walking alone to an empty house.
The entire first year of the Wildcat Extended Day Program was funded by a generous donor. For the second year, Health First Foundation will match up to $50,000 in contributions, thanks to proceeds from the sale of land gifted by Robert and Loretta Larson to the organization (they were named the Health First 2021 Philanthropists of the Year).
If you visit the Wildcat Extended Day Program, you’ll probably find some level of harmonious chaos: students are playing outside under adult supervision, while others choose to participate in the papier mâché project involving balloons and sticky strips of newsprint. Older girls might be playing a vocabulary enrichment game at one of the long tables. It’s children who get to be children for some hours instead of having to stand in for adults who don’t have the luxury of parenting because of the demands of supporting a family.
But the program isn’t just a boon to parents and children. It assists the employers; the business community doesn’t have as much absenteeism or distracted staff when children are well cared for. It also benefits potential residents, who instead of being told, “There’s no day care in Sedona,” can hear about students safe and supervised for up to twelve hours a day, with no shuttles or vans involved.
We don’t know the trajectory these students will take after their years at West Sedona School; how many will get first-generation university student scholarships, or perhaps follow Welch’s military path for continuing education and professional training. But we can be pretty certain that with the support they get from the Wildcat Extended Day Program, their futures are brighter than they would have been without it. And remember, you give twice as much as you donate.
For more information on the Wildcat Club Extended Day Program, please contact Lisa Schnebly Heidinger.
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